Thursday, May 10, 2012

From the Plane: Round 2.



As I look back at my first blog from the plane, I realize what a
little punk I was when I was leaving. I mean, of course I still stand
by my assertion that I didn't need to find myself but to sit and take
the time to think, but everything else about it was just garbage.

Having left, finished studying abroad, and all that comes with it, I
can honestly say studying abroad was the time of my life. MISSION
ACCOMPLISHED: GO ME.

But in all seriousness, Im sitting on a plane home next to some hot
mess girls from John Cabbot who keep screaming through their tears "I
don't know how I'm going to go on" I pretty much feel the same, I just
don't have anyone to cry to, nor am I still drunk from last night.
(I'm guessing from her slider speech, and inside out forever 21
shirt).

I leave Rome having taken more than my fair share of memories. I
didn't say no to anything, I have no regrets and I am happy to say it
was the best time of my life. Although I am going to call myself out
for a few things.

How the hell did I write in my first blog that "I had to make this
experience for myself" having been through it, I know that I had such
a small part in my happiness that it is laughable. The campus, all of
the SLA's, Mike, and everyone I met made me happy, gave me the time
and experiences that made this semester unforgettable.

Ireland; wait, really



We got to Ireland in the late morning flying into Dublin. We got
directly on a bus and headed out for Galway, where we were staying
that night. We got in in the afternoon and got settled in, notably
exhausted from the crazy day of tours the day before and the 8 hours
of travel. We posted up in the lounge and took a lot of advantage of
the hostels free coffee machine. When we finally got out of there it
was dinner time so we walked around saw a couple sights and tried for
more food. We got a recommendation, but it ended up being more
expensive than we wanted. The pound had kicked our asses the days
before. Some locals spotted us very desperate and let us in on their
favorite place, the cellar.

We got there, and were met by Jesse. Quite possibly the nicest person
any of us have ever met. She told us things to do, and recommended
some great beers and food. Plus she was hilarious. I'm jelaous of
people in the UK Becuase they can be completely crude but it's okay
Becuase they have a cute accent and everyone does it. Unfair. Our
dinner went on for almost three hours; turns out you can take the
students out of Italy, but you can't take the Italy out of the
students.

After we went places Jesse and "Patrick" at the hostel told us to go.
We stated at a huge pub whose name I can't remember, I'll check my
bank statement (eeek) and get back to you. It was big, full of Irish
people and had a love band that people were up jiggin to. It was quite
the scene. Then in walks the one and only Anne Bottaro. She happened
to be in town with her family and clearly we had to meet up. It was
great to see her, and to celebrate may day with her; plus she bought
me a Guiness, all things coming up Luke.

To end the night we all went to "the silent disco". It sounded crazy
but ended up being 5 of the best euro I've spent in the last few
months. Everyone got headphones and no music was played traditionally,
there were two DJ's you could select from the  headphones and at least
one was amazing at one time. Wha essentially happened was a rediculous
dance party where everyone was SCREAMING singing along and no one
could hear, but we were dancing together. In other words it was the
best time ever. On the way home we stopped in to SuperMac's; of course
in Ireland I had my first fast food on my trip. Something in my head
said "Taco Fries, those sound amazing" so I got them. Sure, they were
amazing, but holy hell was I embarrassed to be seen with those, woops.
When in Ireland.

The next day we woke up and waited for our tour bus to pick us up for
a trip out to the Cliffs of Mhore. We thought it was a straight shot,
but it ended up being an all day, 10 stop tour of a lot of western
Ireland. Our tour guide Paul was hilarious, always the first to crack
a joke. At lunch, the girls were all shamelessly flirting with the
bartender, and Paul saw. Betsy was in love, and left her number. Paul
called her OUT, he knew Shawn, he was 19, and Paul made sure the
entire bus knew what happened. It was hilarious.

The cliffs were beautiful, something I didn't really expect, and I
can't really put into words. It was a view like none other and again
it was all natural. We made our way back to Galway, and then got
directly on a bus to Dublin where we were staying that evening.

We got in around 9:30 and checked in to our hostel and headed out. We
walked past temple bar, used thier ATM and moved on. We spent a few
hours in a pub talking about how much fun our trips together were, and
how sad we were to go. Betsy, Will and I were heading back to Venice
the next day. Will and I spotted a club below the bar we had been in
and had to go check it out. We said goodnight to the girls after
trying to convince them to come to no avail. We went in and tore stuff
up for a little while, dancing like idiots and making random friends
who were pretty impressed with my knowledge of 2004-2007 rap music. Up
at 4:30am to head to the airport, agh, traveling.

London; Land Of the Queen




Will and I got in to London at two after our emotional morning leaving campus. We took a train in from Gatwick and tried to find our hotel. We had to go check in at a hotel and then we were cabbed over to our rented apartment. After a fail of an hour and a half we found the hotel, and got brought to our apartment. The apartment was pretty big, private, and only a few tube stops from the center of town.

We looked through our guidebooks and realized that during finals we didn't plan anything of this trip and thought we would just figure it out. The lack of language barrier was a welcome change. We headed over to the Soho neighborhood to check it out and get dinner and maybe dance (just a little). We found THAI FOOD and we just simply had to go in. It was good, cheap, and I was into it. We went dancing and headed back wore the tube ended at midnight and went to wait for the girls in
our apartment (I love saying that). They didn't end up getting there until after 4am, and I had to stay up to let them in, the downside of apartment life.

The next morning will and I got an early start while the girls slept in and went over to the tower of London and had a huge breakfast before we went in. We walked in all VIP like with the London Pass we decided to buy. The tower of London was crazy with all of its history of torture and craziness and all of the jewels we saw, although we
skipped the crown jewels. The line wasn't worth it. Then we went up tothe Tower bridge and took in awesome views of London and the exhibitions explained some of the architecture of London. Then we headed down to the Tate modern museum and looked at some amazing modern art. It was so nice to see modern art, something I missed in Italy.

We met up with the girls and walked across the millennium bridge and looked up at St. Paul's. We then went over to Picadilly Circus and got some coffee. Something about the collective exhaustion and new coffee buzz made us all crazy and we literally stood around laughing trying to find a place to eat. We epically failed and ended up eating street fish and chips on Bond street. Woops.

On our second full, and sadly last day in London we were up early to fulfill the itinerary Will had so dutifully prepared. We started by going over to Portobello road, the awesome market street in London. On the way we got off the tube and we were trying to figure out how to get to the market a few streets away. The cutest old British woman came up and asked if we needed help, we old her what we were trying to
do, and she said she would walk us there. This was one of the many amazing interactions with Brits we had. They were all so nice, it was out of control. At the market it took every bone in my body not to buy every vintage watch, piece of crystal, and silver in sight. My already stuffed baggage came to mind and I sadly walked away empty handed.

Off we went to Kensington gardens and Hyde park. On the way Lars (laura) came 6 inches fro literally being killed while not looking the correct way as she crossed the street. I hadn't seen much green space in the city yet and I was shocked by the size of the parks. We walked through just chatting and noting all of the things we loved about
British culture. From the formal greetings, to the super direct Names for things like "way out" and "push chair". The parks were great, we napped in the sun for a hot second and walked our way over to Buckingham palace. We came, we watched, and we saw a brief guard changing (it wasn't that cool, let's al stop lying to each other).

Next, We walked over to Westminster abbey and big Ben, we were on a sightseeing marathon. Will and I flaunted our London Passes again and went inside while the girls napped wit big Ben. It was cool to be within a place where so much history has taken place, and where so many famous people a buried. It's so crazy, Dickens, Darwin, royalty; I mean really London? We get it. U took a lot of illegal pictures, a
skill I've honed in a semester of travel to historical sights, it's really the greatest skill I've picked up woke abroad. That and an amazing taste for a good carbonara and a judgmental eye for wines. We made our way back over to Lieshter square to score a great deal; just wait for it.

We got tickets to see Les Miserables on the west end. I know, it was awesome. Will and I had seen these half price ticket houses all over London before the girls got there and we made the proclamation that we were going with or without them. When they got in town, one of the first things they said was "we want to see les mis" it was meant to
be. The whole trip kind of just worked out like that. Will and I wanted to go to London and Dublin/Galway and so did they. We kind of
booked our own stuff and then ended up being on a couple of the same flights. CRAZAY.

So we went to the ticket store in the tube stop and asked for five tickets. There were five available in the balcony for a ridiculous price as we got on it. We went to get some more traditional fare and coffee before the show; holy fried food London, it started to get a little redundant, and we all proclaimed how much Italian food we can
eat and be really full but not feel as though we are going to die. Score 1 Italy.

The show was obviously amazing, it was on the west end. It was amazing. We went back to our apartment (never gets old) and had some drinks and got to bed early for our flight out to Dublin the next day. Oh London, I never wanted to leave.

That's Not Real




I just left the JFRC. I'm technically an alumni. This is the weirdest
feeling, I literally want nothing more than to stay there forever. At
the same time I cannot wait to go home and see my family and my old
friends that I miss dearly.

As we were saying goodbye to everyone outside the gates before we got
on the buses for the airport I wasn't feeling that emotional, rather
not letting myself feel emotional. Then I saw Colleen and sweet baby
Annie and I managed to keep it together. Until Annie turned around and
gave me her signature side eyes. I stated balling. So many things were
represented by Annie in that instant. Colleen, mike, the whole staff
and so many of my memories and happy times this semester I shared with
her as we watched her grow. It was a culmination of all of the
feelings I didn't want to feel.

 I got on the bus and waited to leave and I absolutely lost it.
It was actually clear that this was over. The place that made me the
happiest I have ever been is now in my past. As everyone boarded the
bus it only got worse, each of the SLA'S came on to the bus and gave
us a little speech, each got emotional (even Bryan) and the feelings
kept coming.

The director came on and told us that a part of the JFRC will always
be with us, and that we each left something at the JFRC. Literally
everyone was crying. Mike got on the bus to offer us a final goodbye
and we tried our best to get it back together for the bus ride.

Fail. As we pulled through the end of the driveway we saw all of the
SLA's and staff standing on top of the huge planter surrounding the
tree at the end of the driveway waving. Everyone again started crying.
Not the guarded cries we had before, but full on ugly cries we could
not control. I'm crying now awkwardly alone on my easyjet flight just
thinking of it. It was the perfect sendoff from the people that made
my semester transformational.



Last Two Weeks in Rome





What a whirlwind. I can vary recall what I've done and where I've
been. I can tell you one thing, it wasn't studying- it was spent in my
now former home; Rome.

I got back from geneva and was immediately met by all of my friends to
get all of the info on what they did while I was gone. That commenced
the largest marathon of going out, seeing, doing, living- that I have
ever been a part of.

I was either hurriedly writing a paper or (barely) studying or I was
out. At night, during the day, from museums to good old villa b. I
refused to waste a second. I honestly can't seem to remember many
specific details of things I did, to you know, brag about in my blog,
but I can tell you it was the most fun I've ever had.

It was like everyone was in a study abroad brochure for two weeks.
Everything we did was an experience no matter how seemingly normal or
commonplace it was. Waiting for the 990 was fun, everything was fun.
So; that was my blog about nothing, you're welcome.

Sundays

Sunday's. I would argue (pretty well) that Sunday's were my favorite
days while I studied abroad. Sunday's at home suck, let's be real.
Laundry, homework, obligations. Well let's be serious. None of that
happens here.

Around 9 or 10 we all somehow convene. It's never planned but it
always seems to happen. We sit around and talk about what we all did
that weekend, how many countries we got to, what awesome stuff we
finally took the time to do in Roma. Everyone loved it, because we all
cared, we all wanted to hear (and we wanted travel tips).

Maybe we had some wine, maybe we didn't do any work. Maybe it was my
favorite part of every week. This little accidental tradition was one
I looked forward to, I was always so happy to be getting back to
campus that I didn't even care how expensive that damn cab was.

I am going to miss Sundays. Next semester; Sunday night wine nights
with aperitifs. No Facebook invite, everyone will just know to walk on
over to Pratt and share our stories together. Deal?

Time to Think



What I'll miss. The time to sit and think. All of the idle time I have
grown used to while studying abroad and traveling. Not only Did I have
dozens of hours a week in travel time within Rome and traveling, but
there were so many less distractions.

I didn’t have my Iphone, I never put credit on my Italian phone, and after
a few hours of listening to the same music you have to just stop. You
have to think, and you do so willingly. Constantly seeing new things
makes you think, at lead it did for me, about myself, how I have
lived, and how I want to live in the future.

The time to think. That is what I know I will miss from my time
abroad, but thankful I am for the time I had to do noting but think.

8 Things

8 Things

I won't miss
The 990 loop
Dog poop everywhere
Mensa
Baroque everything
Tourists
JFRC Internet
Studying art
Potential death by taxi

I will miss
The Beazleys
Postcard bridge
Casually strolling past a Bernini
Travel
SLA's
The Mensa ladies
Melanzane
Sunday's